The blessing in the “rejection”

Do you truly believe in the idea that “What is for me, won’t pass me, What is meant for me, won’t miss me?” I realized (up until my years of awakening) I’ve always associated this idea of rejection as “not being good enough” for what I desired at the time. This false idea of failure. Rejection once felt like a punch to the gut… How could this thing pass me, how could this thing not want me….. until I realized - “Maybe just maybe I’m actually too good for it”… “Maybe just maybe…. We would have placed ourselves in harms way - thinking what we desired was actually what we needed.

SPIRIT GON PUMP THE BREAKS EVERY SINGLE TIME!

Have you ever paused and reflected on how many unfortunate situations you were spared from - (what you thought you wanted) passing you right on by?

• The job you wanted that you received the “we went with someone else” email, But unbeknownst to you, something greater, better paying or more fitting to your lifestyle was making it’s way to you.

• The friendship you thought was a forever thing….. how many beautiful divine relationships flourished after you let that one go?

• The relationship you were holding onto - that was essentially blocking true joy and love from reaching you

• The things you “desire” that seem to be right at your fingertips, but for some reason you can’t seem to grip it!!

  Desire vs Deserve

  Want vs Need

Transmuting this idea that rejection was this harsh - punch to the gut - feeling, actually helped me realize my worth in a-lot of ways. It also keeps me grounded in the knowing that I am protected. Transmuting this idea that rejection was equivalent to failure helped me realize that once we show up as our authentic self, once we show up shining in the light of the divine - whatever harm that even attempts to float our way, won’t even reach us. Transmuting this idea that rejection was meant I wasn’t good enough, actually taught me how GOOD enough I actually am.

I think in this space, time and NOW, I can actually look back and get a good laugh at a-lot of the things I wanted and desired - because we know damn well, a-lot of those things - weren’t worthy of us, weren’t in true alignment with us and truly didn’t deserve us.

Everything that passes us, is essentially preparing us for something better.